When someone offends a person, thoughts of revenge immediately creep into his head. Of course, you can wait until the emotions subside, and perhaps the desire will go away on its own. But this does not always happen, and most often a person involuntarily thinks about how to take revenge on the offender. You will find some tips below.

How to take revenge on an offender without breaking the law?

It is necessary to take revenge without breaking the law, otherwise such acts will be of no use. So, the easiest way to get revenge is to start gossip. Surely there is a person in your circle who can easily spread the news around the world. If you were offended by a friend, then you can hint to your gossip friend that you saw the offender in the arms of a mutual friend. Who would have thought, but she pretended to be an exemplary wife. In a few days, this story will acquire incredible details and will be presented to you by an outsider. Perhaps this gossip will reach the ears of your friend’s husband, who will most likely cause a scandal for her, and you will be revenged.

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You can also do minor dirty tricks to the offender from time to time and set him up at every opportunity. If he is within your reach, then discreetly salt his tea or coffee, bring him juice with a laxative. Such small pranks will amuse you. Learn about your abuser's fears. For example, if he hates rats, mice, spiders, you can plant them in his workplace or in his house or apartment. It is important not to get caught, otherwise a scandal cannot be avoided.

It’s very easy to punish a male offender, just spread gossip about his gayness, plus throw him a few gay magazines. After this, the entire male population of the office will constantly make fun of him. If you do not work with your offender, then you can spread a similar rumor among mutual friends.

If you have been insulted by a lady, the articles will help you punish your negligent lover and calm your pride.

How to take revenge using magic?

Magic can help you take revenge on your offender. There are quite a few conspiracies, after reading which the one who insulted you will come to apologize. Also, an accident may happen to the offender, he may get sick or even die. But the best thing is to make him feel the same way as you. To do this, you need to pronounce the following spell: Go, arrow, with pain, tears, untrodden paths, through his blood, not into the eye, not into the eyebrow, but go straight into the heart. Pinch him and stab him, beat him, punish him, punish him, destroy him - my offender (name). Key, lock, Amen.

More tips on how to punish someone who has offended you can be found in our article.

When drawing up a plan for revenge, it is important to remember that evil thoughts in the heart will bring harm to you, especially if magic is involved in this matter. After all, all the evil that you wish on others can easily come back to you like a boomerang. Think about it, perhaps in a few days the emotions will subside and you will be able to look at the situation with different eyes.

You are in a terrible state. Your boyfriend left you, he destroyed everything you believed in and hoped for. If this person behaved meanly and cynically, insulted with his behavior, exposed him to ridicule, then it hurts doubly. And you decided to take revenge on the guy. Do you want him to endure at least a fraction of what you had to endure? Well, you can understand. The main thing is that in the heat of vengeance, you do not get carried away and do something stupid. It is important to stop in time, to say to yourself “Stop!”

In what cases is it not worth taking revenge?

Women who still love a man often decide to take this step. They cannot forgive him for ruining their plans for happiness and now sharing their lives with another. This is banal jealousy and resentment. Pay attention, maybe he still has hints that he also continues to miss you. If so, then it is better not to take revenge, but to try to improve the relationship, to push him to action that will allow him to return to the former harmony.

The second point is that there is no need to take revenge if he offended you unwillingly, involuntarily. This also happens, many of us become victims of circumstances. Perhaps he was set up or misled.

You yourself have become a victim of your own fantasies. Remember, did he offer you friendship, love? From the very beginning you did not give him any way, you followed him everywhere. And when you were starved out, he reluctantly began a relationship with you. The logical result was his departure, his infatuation with another girl. And this is normal, because he did not love you and did not promise anything. It turns out that you took revenge on yourself with the current situation. Who should I be offended by now? Only for yourself. And there is nothing to take revenge on this guy for, let him go and don’t pursue him anymore. Get your hands on yourself!

Before you take revenge, think a hundred times

Just recently everything was fine in your couple. It seemed that everyone around was admiring your sincere and tender relationship. And the moment came when you learned about his infidelity, dishonesty. In this case, revenge, of course, has grounds. But is it worth punishing the offender for what he did to you? It cannot be said that some marginal part of the female sex is burning with the desire to take revenge. Almost all girls and ladies who have been deceived and offended, picture in their thoughts the most sophisticated methods of returning pain. Yes, revenge is the return of betrayal, pain, humiliation. We want him to experience the same thing as us. To lie on his knees and beg for forgiveness.

The main thing to start with is to cool down. You cannot think about revenge in the heat of passion, at the moment of a surge of emotions, when your soul is painful and disgusting. Wait at least 1-2 weeks. It is best to leave and preferably on vacation. If possible, go to the sea, to a country boarding house and breathe fresh air, meet new people, and “dilute” your life. Fresh faces, interesting conversations, entertainment and relaxation will bring positive impressions and calm the heated passions in your soul.

And then think about whether he is worth wasting energy and nerves on his punishment. Will you get relief? Of course, all psychologists say that it is absolutely impossible to suppress negative emotions. It’s also not worth taking it out on your loved ones and relatives - they are not to blame for anything. The only person who deserves your attacks is he, the one who hurt and offended. But even here you need to think about how to take revenge.

How to avoid taking revenge

Before we describe for you the best and most effective methods of punishing an offender, we suggest that you study what you should never dare to do.

1. Do not cause bodily harm.
2. Don't punish your opponent.
3. Don't think about suicide.
4. Don't curse and don't run after money.
5. Don't damage his property.
6. Do not damage your opponent's property.

Revenge should be beautiful

So, we have already brushed aside all the bad methods that can destroy not only him, but also your life. Now let's move on to the list, which will reflect very elegant and effective methods of punishment. At first glance they seem too soft, but this is only at first glance. After all, we decided to take revenge beautifully and wisely, which means we must be patient. Take action, and as in the Chinese proverb, wait for the “corpse” of your offender on the river bank. It should not be taken literally, “corpse” has a figurative meaning.

Don’t even think about calling him, and in general, change your mobile phone number. Men just pretend not to react to anything. In his heart, he hopes that you are still pining for him and will cut off his phone. Just imagine what disappointment awaits him when there is complete silence. Of course, at this time it will be very difficult for you, you will be “burning”, boredom will arise, longing for your loved one. Nothing - be patient. He is now in a more uncertain state.

Don't you dare sit at home. But don’t communicate with your ex in the same company. Better make new friends, otherwise he will think that you are deliberately trying to meet him again. But don't lose touch with your friends. Let them tell him that everything is fine with you, the rhythm of life has not changed, you are having a great time, you are not bored and are not crying into your pillow.

Ignore his presence. Even if you receive an invitation from a mutual friend for a birthday, go boldly and don’t be afraid of anything. Now I’ll tell you a very interesting situation that will help you take revenge on your offender beautifully and gracefully.

Galina and Sasha started dating about a week before he became interested in another girl. We've known each other for a long time, but it seems like our relationship has started to improve. Every day he came to visit, invited us for a walk, and gave flowers. Everything said that the guy was in love and wanted to develop the relationship. It cannot be said that Galya was burning with desire, but she still felt sympathy for him in her soul. So, there were kisses and caresses, fortunately it didn’t reach the bed.

And then, mutual friends are having a wedding. Naturally, our heroine was sure that Alexander would be her gentleman, and it seemed like they started dating. But no, as soon as a blonde from the groom’s side of the family appeared, he immediately forgot about Galina’s existence. It was unpleasant. In her thoughts, Galya thought it was good that we didn’t go far, otherwise she would have felt spat upon.

So, at the end of the wedding celebrations, Sasha and Blonde went together to the same hotel room. The second day of the wedding took place at a friends dacha. For a long time Galina thought about whether to go or not to go. And then she spat and decided that such a womanizer and nonentity like this Sashka was not worth it for her to give up rest and communication with friends.

Arriving at the place, she decided that she would not even look in the direction of the womanizer. Sasha appeared with the blonde, they gently whispered something in each other’s ear. Galina - zero attention. Moreover, when they clinked glasses, she smiled, along with everyone else she extended her hand, but did not look the offender in the eyes. About 2 hours after the start of the banquet, he could not stand it and started running after our heroine. Moreover, he knelt in front of her.

It would seem, what did she do? I ignored it - and this is the strongest blow to a man’s pride. Of course, she didn't give him a second chance, but the poor blonde was abandoned too. Nine months later she gave birth to a boy. And Sasha married a simple and modest girl, but it didn’t work out and he became an alcoholic.

Become a happy and successful girl. Perhaps this is a real “uppercut” to the ex. It will be difficult for him to come to terms with the fact that after breaking up with you, you do not need anything, enjoy life, and can afford anything. And of course, he will be painfully hurt by the mere thought that you have fallen in love and the feeling is mutual. How to achieve all this? It's simple:

1. Engage in your own self-development. Study, look for an interesting job, and grow your career. Work and study will help you take your mind off heavy thoughts and will very soon completely dissolve them.
2. Take up some hobby. Sign up for courses, in the studio, dance, write poetry, bake cakes.
3. The moment will come when your revenge will turn into a profitable activity, and then you will be completely indifferent to how your ex feels. Isn’t it cool to watch his facial expression when you, like a butterfly, flutter out of your own convertible.

Meet and talk with his new passion. Before doing this, make sure that this is a normal, adequate person, and not some kind of hysterical fool. Tell her in detail what kind of person your ex is. Perhaps in this way you will protect another victim of the womanizer from harm and pain. Also tell her about his secrets, which he carefully hides from his new girlfriends. Most likely, if she is an understanding person, the conversation will help draw the right conclusions and scare the girl away.

You still have his messages on your phone and tender letters in your email. Send their text to your new lover's phone. Regardless of how old they are, a serious scandal awaits. Any woman continues to be jealous of her man for his past. And if it is impossible to prove when the message was written, then a conflict will definitely break out.

Take advantage of the achievements of modern technology. Register on one of the social networks under a new name, find your ex and start a virtual relationship with him. Instead of an avatar, you need a photo of a stunning beauty (the main thing is not to frame another girl). Find a photo of a girl living almost in another corner of the planet. She must be the embodiment of his desires. Arrange an exciting correspondence and lure the guy into your “network”. Pull until the last minute, arouse his desire, force him to make an appointment. And when the hottest moment comes, you have several punishment options:

1. Send all this to his new girlfriend. Let her know what kind of womanizer she is dealing with.
2. Make a date and disappoint with your appearance. This is truly a victory because he was on your leash for several months.
3. Abruptly stop the correspondence, pointing out his shortcomings in communication. Humiliate his dignity.

If you have dirt on a guy, use it. As a rule, in long-term relationships, men stop being careful, they may spill the beans, hide their documents poorly, etc. And women are curious people, they will definitely sniff out something. An excellent option is saved video recordings of his incorrect behavior, bad attitude towards colleagues, etc. For a careerist or a person dependent on the boss, this is a bomb, the explosion of which will destroy all his plans.

A sophisticated but expensive way is to ruin your ex's vacation. Wealthy girls or ladies usually resort to it. You need to prepare properly and purchase tickets for two (for him and his new passion). Preferably to a resort in some exotic country. Well, you know his preferences and you can’t go wrong with your choice. And as soon as the couple reaches their destination, numerous and serious problems should immediately begin. This includes lack of seats, confusion with numbers, poor food, no plane tickets, or they simply have not been paid for.

Of course, it’s impossible without involving a travel agent in this process, but it’s still worth trying to contact them. At the same time, you shouldn’t let your ex know which company the voucher came from; let it be a fictitious company, and at the other end of the phone you will answer in a slightly changed voice. The main thing is that the unfortunate vacationers are not harmed physically.

Place advertisements of various types on the Internet. For example, pizza delivery, or car repairs, urgent computer repairs, etc. And of course, include his phone number everywhere. The endless stream of calls will drive him crazy. A more sophisticated way is to leave his phone number on a dating site for gay people.

There are a million different groups on the Internet. Among them there are those who help take revenge on the girl’s offender. Let them call your ex and set him up in front of his new lover. The effect is guaranteed.

Change your status, but don't describe your situation. That is, such small and simple phrases, such as “I have an amazing manicure”, “The girl did a great perm”, “The cat scratched the sofa” will simply drive the former gentleman crazy. The described indicates that you have no intention of attracting his attention, and at the same time, you pay attention to all sorts of nonsense. This means that you are completely calm, carefree and do not suffer from loneliness.

Make him fall in love with you again, and then, of course, dump him. This revenge will take time. After betrayal, take a time out and don’t show your face to him for at least a month. During this time, you should completely transform, become more beautiful, slimmer. Seek advice from makeup artists. And then, as if by accident, run into him at a party with friends or in a cafe. Rest assured, he will be stunned by your beauty and will immediately regret breaking up with you. It would be nice if there were people hanging around you who wanted to get a date. To begin with, communicate with him, you can even flirt. Reassure the offender, let him dream. And at the most “interesting” moment, leave him, pointing out his mental and physical shortcomings. This is revenge, this is revenge!

Can proceed further. Agree to go on a date with him, let it take place in some hotel. When he takes a shower, throw his things out the window and calmly go home. Or even worse, offer role-playing games, tie the guy to the bed, naked of course. And go your way. Let the maid find him in this position. She will definitely invite her colleagues to admire the would-be womanizer and take a couple of pictures on her phone, although you already have them. Post it online and let everyone who wants to admire it.

Make him jealous. Have an easy romance, without obligations. You need to shift your attention to the other person. Let your ex know about it. If you think that he doesn’t care, you are mistaken. Men are possessive and in their dreams they hope that you shed tears for him and do not want to see anyone. No, you are needed, they look after you, they woo you. And it will hurt!

Fulfill old desires. Remember what you dreamed about together when you were still a couple. Maybe they wanted to go to some resort, or attend a concert of their favorite musician. Make this dream come true for yourself. If before you couldn’t save money or find time, now you allow yourself everything you want. Don’t forget to post pictures with your face glowing with pleasure on social networks. This way he will understand that you didn’t love him that much if you didn’t try to please him before separation.

Write a letter full of coquetry and flirtation and, as if by accident, send it to his number. Naturally, he will answer, and you will make it clear that it was not intended for him. And be sure to apologize to him for this oversight. But do not repeat the action categorically, otherwise he will figure it out.

Hurt him. When you find out that he has exchanged you for someone else, make an appointment. And tell him, looking into his eyes, that you are glad that this happened, because you never loved him, but you just didn’t know how to tell him about it. And so, everything resolved itself. And wish him happiness, and, by the way, give him advice, let him make sure that this girl really loves him. The blow to pride will be the most accurate.

Does your ex love his car? There is nothing complicated here at all. Drip valerian once, the cats will not get off the hood and will scratch all the paint. Or sprinkle wheat, let the birds peck, and at the same time leave millions of holes on the surface of the car.

Don't break contact with his mother. If a woman treats you well, continue to communicate, because she is not to blame for anything. Also, through it he will learn that everything is fine with you, communication with his family does not cause additional pain. You feel great, you have a new romance (even if it’s not), interesting hobbies.

The ex’s mother will always tell you how her unlucky son is really doing. The same goes for other members of the guy's family. His sister and brother should not become your enemies. Keep calling them, of course, it’s better if the initiative comes from them.

Revenge with an intimate “scent”

Next, we will present on display methods of punishing an offender, which not every girl dares to do. But if he really humiliated and insulted you, and even made you a laughing stock, let him “be content” with what he deserved.

1. The most important thing for a man is his sexual reputation. And in order to punish him, you need to immediately tell your girlfriends why you “left” him. He just has problems with his “manhood.” It's either too small, or the guy has simple impotence. You can even express your indignation in detail about how inconvenient it was for you when he bought Viagra before your next retreat. And don’t forget to return the bottle of this drug to him in front of his friends with the words, “Hey, I don’t need yours!” He won't get rid of such shame for a long time.
2. You broke up because he is hiding his true sexual orientation. And you were just a cover, but everything got boring. With an offended and disappointed face, share how you were cheated on with men, begged for underwear, and instead of picking you up from work, had fun at your favorite gay club. But you need to tell it very convincingly. With the smallest details, descriptions of his excuses and confessions, with visualization of his inventions. That's the only way they'll believe it.

We have listed for you the most harmless and easy methods of punishing a person who has offended, betrayed, humiliated, or insulted you. We are in no way arguing that even easy methods of revenge should take place in the life of an offended girl. The main punishment is ahead of him. Believe me, causing offense and pain to a person who did nothing wrong to you, loved and believed, is a great sin. The laws of nature do not ignore such things. Like a boomerang, everything will come back, and at the most unexpected moment, in an unexpected way. And you need to go your own way and thank fate for getting rid of the deceiver and manipulator in time. It would be much worse if he became your husband and tormented you all your life with his adventures.

It is considered correct in Christianity that spite should be answered with good. However, it often happens that, left unpunished, evil returns to us with a vengeance. Conspiracies can protect yourself from the offender to some extent.

What kind of conspiracy to read when punishing an offender, so that it is damaged in 3 days, the offender apologizes, against the thief, to give revenge to the offender so that she starts having problems, a version of revenge for and against, how to teach a lesson so that he repents and corrects what he has done, for death and in the photo this You can find it everywhere, but here only the best and working ones.

Conspiracy of the offender without harm to himself

The most harmless way for yourself to punish an offender is... to forgive him. Go to church and light a candle in the health of your offender with the words: “God is your judge.”

Vanga's conspiracy against the offender

Vanga believed that in all life situations one must act as one’s conscience dictates. Therefore, even if you are very offended by someone, you should not do harm to this person and build retaliatory intrigues. If a person is unable to cope with the current situation on his own, then he needs to turn to the Guardian Angel with words for help. There is no need for a special conspiracy for this. State your request for patronage and protection from the offender in your own words.

Conspiracy of the offender by conspiracy at a distance

Buy a red rose. Place it in water and let it sit in front of you until it withers. Every day, tear off one thorn from the stem and say the following spell:

“A thorn in your evil tongue!
No more hissing!
You can’t tell lies in vain,
You will come out of your own evil with anger!
Let it be so. Amen."

How to punish an offender - a strong conspiracy

The conspiracy is read “hot on the heels” and only when there is complete confidence in your rightness, otherwise everything can turn against you:

A conspiracy to make the offender ask for forgiveness

Take an incomplete glass of water and place a burning candle in it with the words:

“You will not live, but suffer,
until you repent from my candle
and you won’t repent to me!
Amen."

Plot of revenge on the offender

The plot is read over a glass of water:

It will be cast on you.
I don't wish harm
I pour water over the threshold.
Now you won't come into my house,

Then the water should be poured over the threshold of your home.

Conspiracy against the offender using a photo

A photograph of the offender is placed and a glass of water is placed on it. Next, the conspiracy is pronounced:

“All your evil will return to you,
It will be cast on you.
I don't wish harm
I pour water over the threshold.
Now you won't come into my house,
You can’t tell lies in vain! Amen."

The water from the glass should be thrown over the threshold, the photo of the offender should be hidden away or thrown away.

Conspiracy to punish a child abuser

To punish a child offender, you need to cross yourself three times and say:

"Don't touch my child
Evil tongues, dashing troubles!
Anyone who wishes for harm invites disaster upon himself!
Truly so. Amen".

Conspiracy to take revenge on the offender at work

Stand on the shadow of your offender and mentally say:

“No matter how hard you try, the top is mine!
Take your evil with you."

A very strong conspiracy from the offender

Say the following spell after the offender:

“I will punish the offender with nausea, dry dryness.
He will know neither sleep nor rest for seven days
If you bothered my name. Amen!"

Please note that this conspiracy is very strong and the offender will be in trouble in the literal sense.

Conspiracy against a thief or offender (Natalia Stepanova)

Stand in such a way as to cast a shadow from yourself and read the plot:

“Shadow, shadow, followed me all day.
Now help and defeat the enemy.
Let's put him under our hooves,
so that the offense is broken. Amen."

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It becomes very sad when an unknown person from another city calls him all sorts of names on social networks, although I didn’t even contact him or ask him anything, idiot. Here's how to avoid resorting to conspiracies after this.

I really want to take revenge on the scammer who took 6,000 dollars from me with his lies. He promised mountains of gold, made me fall in love with him and then asked for money, promised to return it when we met, but is not going to come.

I don’t want to wish anything bad, but the neighbors are outliving us and our little daughter. We live a quiet life, no one has ever complained, but when the new neighbors moved in, they started walking and trampling... We were tormented by them. The child is not sent to kindergarten and constantly does not want to go home, and I don’t want to either

The boss survives at work, punishes the entire team, turns the team against me. How to forgive? There is nowhere else to work. He mocks, harasses, humiliates.

Every person has encountered in his life betrayal, dishonest fulfillment of promises, and other things to which we usually react with resentment. Sometimes we get offended even when the offender had good reasons to let us down. This does not seem significant: the main thing is that our interests are respected at any cost.

We can be offended in almost any situation, unexpectedly, even by the people closest to us:

Experiencing strong resentment, a person begins to think about revenge. There is a widespread belief that revenge must necessarily follow any insult and humiliation. Supposedly this is how you can prove to the whole world that you are a worthy person. Is this belief true?

As a rule, after successful revenge a person does not feel any relief. Maybe the desire to take revenge is just a harmful reflex? Consider this example: a naval battle of sailing warships. There's a hole in the side of your ship, he is drowning. How to improve your position in this situation - should you fire back or close the gap? What if the gap was created not by an enemy ship, but by some cliff?

Revenge in cinema

Films in which the main character takes revenge on the villains are very popular. We are following the development of these stories with great interest.. But pay attention to how you feel after finishing these films. What remains but the joy of spectacular fight scenes and beautiful explosions?

You may notice that only sadness remains. It’s more interesting when the “villain” in a movie is better revealed, his motivation is shown so that we can see that we would probably be no different from him if we were in his place.

Spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle, speaking on this topic, recommended watching the film “Gran Torino,” characterizing it as “transformative.” Indeed, events there develop in a somewhat non-standard way, and as a result, the viewer can experience real catharsis.

Vendetta

An extreme manifestation of revenge for an insult is vendettas, common on some islands of the Mediterranean Sea until the beginning of the last century. They consisted in the fact that for the death of one’s family member, one of the killer’s family should certainly be killed. As a rule, each subsequent revenge became more and more cruel than the previous one, and often as a result both warring clans were exterminated to the last person. And pay attention: after all, both clans took revenge, and did not just mindlessly kill. Both had reasons to be offended.

There is nothing else, there is no one else... There is no one else except that raven - there is no one to shoot at him... (B. Okudzhava)

Blood feud is a barbaric custom that survives today only in the wildest regions. However, even in civilized societies, many still want to take revenge, albeit in less radical ways, for their grievances. People don't understand that being offended is an extremely infantile behavior. We learn it in infancy, when we understand that with the help of our grievances we can blackmail our parents and peers, receiving certain benefits: candy, ice cream and affection.

Children's grievances

Having been offended, you can demand more from a kind mother than she would like to give us herself. Perhaps she has a small salary and cannot afford a new toy or sweets right now, but when she sees her offended child, she will not be able to resist and will be forced to spend more than the family budget allows. The inability to plan for the future is another infantile trait. It is thanks to her that the child considers it possible to manipulate his parents, who have good reasons not to satisfy all his whims.

If such a child grows up without getting rid of infantile character traits, he seeks to use black magic and conspiracies to take revenge on the enemy, to humiliate him so that he suffers. He knows no other joy than to brutally take revenge on the enemy and ruin a person’s life. The problem is that this joy is not too great . The desire for revenge is one of those that is more pleasant to imagine than to implement, and inside after revenge there remains only emptiness, the realization that nothing has changed for the better.

How to act more wisely?

If the offense inflicted on you is reversible - something of yours was damaged, a monetary debt was not returned, then you should simply start restoring the damage. Rest assured: karma will take care of the offender. Remember what happens to those leading a vendetta? A person who allows himself to treat others unfairly is digging a hole for himself into which he will one day have to fall. You don't even have to push it. So forgive him and forget him, you have more important things to do now: repair the damage done. You must respond as if the damage was caused by a natural disaster or bad weather. You don’t get offended by bad weather - you just take an umbrella.

If you have been offended, and strong feelings are seething within you, such as anger, rage, indignation, you become an easy target for manipulation. You can easily become a victim of a scammer, for example, who will sell you a pseudo-magical “spell”. How to punish a person for meanness, he won’t tell you, but he will replenish the fake sorcerer’s wallet (and significantly lighten yours).

In any situation, you should take care of your well-being. Harming someone is not in your best interests. Moreover, this creates the risk that they will want to harm you in return, and this will last indefinitely. Don't you have something more interesting to do?

Plato, in his dialogue “The State,” cited Socrates’ reasoning about justice. It is difficult to imagine a reader who has read it and then wants to take revenge on someone. This dialogue very simply explains that a person who has committed a bad act is bad. And justice is doing good deeds. If you harm a bad person, it will make him even worse. Which means you will be unfair. Therefore, it would be fair not to do evil even to bad people, so that they do not become even worse from it.

Two frogs

You are so eager to judge the sins of others. Start with your own people, and you won’t reach others. (W. Shakespeare)

This quote says the same thing that Jesus says in the New Testament: you see the speck in someone else’s eye, but you don’t notice the log in your own. The point here is to focus on your development. In any situation, you should make efforts to become stronger yourself. Remember the parable about two frogs drowning in sour cream? One of them was offended by the whole world and drowned. The second one began to quickly move its paws, the sour cream turned into butter, and the frog was able to get free. If she had started making plans for revenge on the man who left the pot of sour cream open, nothing good would have come of it.

It's time to stop looking for someone to blame. It's time to become an adult. It's time for us all to grow up. It's time for us all to stop looking for someone to blame. This is the first sign of growing up - to stop looking for who is to blame. (I. Vyrypaev)

Transferring responsibility to another person is very easy, pleasant and convenient. But not everyone thinks about the consequences of this. The baby has no choice: he has no means of his own and is completely dependent on his parents; only they can buy him a toy or candy.

But as a person grows up, he must realize that more and more actions become available to him. Already, having discovered that there is no candy in your pocket, there is no need to angrily kick your mother’s shoe, as some children do. You can go to the store and buy yourself some candy with your salary.

When does a person, being already an adult, retains this childish mental mechanism that in case of trouble he must certainly be offended by someone, he may face a number of unpleasant consequences.

Hatred is the acquisitiveness of love. (E. Brodetsky)

According to this psychologist, even hatred is just our attempt to receive love. What can we say about resentment? Being offended, we try to demand some dividends from the offender.

A mother, reluctantly, can close her eyes to the whims of her child and still give him the desired treat. If, as an adult, he behaves this way at work, his boss may simply fire him. His colleagues won't understand him either.

If you're feeling left out, it's greener to simply speak out about how you feel. And if you were not heard, then quit and find a job with a more suitable psychological climate for you.

A lit candle will shine until it burns out and goes out. Our life is just as short, and it’s stupid to waste it on petty grievances. . You yourself will suffer from them first of all.. If you come up with a way to annoy someone who, in your opinion, is to blame, to frame him, the suffering will only become more, not less. Now, besides you, one more person will suffer. It makes more sense to think about how to make sure there is less suffering in the world.

Moreover, resentment can even lead to illness. But this is a topic for another article and on another topic.

Below are some practices that can benefit your mental state and spiritual well-being if you have been wronged:

Prayer

A good way to improve your life is prayer. If you spend at least an hour a day in prayer, gradually the grievances will begin to let go of you. “Thy will be done”, “Lord have mercy” - is it possible after such words to retain the selfish desire to harm someone, to hurt?

Runa Evaz

If you have found the courage to forgive your offenders and allow God to give them what they deserve, this rune will help you avoid unpleasant situations in the future. You can draw it somewhere in your home, carry its image with you, or even get a tattoo with it. The less selfishness and resentment you have and the more steadfastness you have in resisting anger and outbursts of anger, the more benefits the Rune of Forgiveness will bring you.

Forgiveness Sunday

In the Christian tradition, there is a special day when forgiveness is given special attention - Forgiveness Sunday. It usually falls in February, the exact date varies from year to year. On this day, Christians not only forgive those with whom they were offended, but also ask for forgiveness from everyone around them. Everyone who has been offended, wittingly or unwittingly. When you ask for forgiveness, you understand that you yourself have offended someone, and this gives you a feeling of harmony in the world. You no longer feel undeservedly offended by someone, it becomes easier to forgive your offenders.

Ho'oponopono

Famous esotericist Joe Vitale talks about the Hawaiian method of changing life for the better, which is called “H'oponopono.” According to him, a person who practiced it cured an entire psychiatric clinic simply by repeating a few words. Namely:

Repeating these words, filling them with sincere repentance and love and addressing them to the patients, doctors and even the walls of the building, Hew Len ensured that the clinic was closed: there was no one to treat, everyone began to recover. Also, with the help of this technique, you can improve your health, and it can be performed completely unnoticed by others, repeating these words to yourself. Distance is not a hindrance for her either.

Conclusion

Touchiness is a harmful and infantile character trait that must be removed from your arsenal in order, no less, to survive in this difficult world. You can be as angry as you want with your boss, but even if the reason for your anger is unfair dismissal, the best option is to forgive. This same path is the best if the woman you love does not live up to your expectations.

The expressions “smile/travel - it annoys everyone” are absolutely fair. This is exactly the best revenge - just focusing on making your life beautiful and amazing. In the movie "Merlin" with the inimitable Sean Connery, there was an evil witch that nothing could penetrate, except for one thing. She was defeated when everyone forgot about her and stopped paying attention to her. . We wish you to punish your offenders in the same way.

What do you do when someone treats you unfairly? Of course, you want to teach the offender a lesson. How to do it? Just make fun of them.

Of course, if someone looked at you in a way that you didn’t like, you shouldn’t pay attention to them. When your spouse is deceiving you, a few jokes will not help you. But between these two extremes, you can confidently use jokes on your friends and enemies.

So, for all those who feel humiliated, offended, annoyed, do not delay, choose one or more jokes from the list that we have collected.

1. If you work in an office, wrap the offender’s chair in plastic wrap. Cling film can be purchased at any household chemical store. Cling film can be replaced with foil. Choose for yourself, and the joke will take your offender by surprise - before you start working, you will have to spend some time cleaning.

2. Use the offender’s shell as a flower pot, of course, if you don’t want to completely destroy something. Take some plastic wrap, then fill the sink with clay and insert a few sprigs of some plants.

3. Sneezing behind the offender is an innocent but effective revenge. Sneak up behind the offender with a glass of water in your hands. Pretend that you sneezed and at the same time splash it on the back of the offender’s head. The more fake you sneeze, the more unpleasant the offender will feel. For example, you can sneeze and only then “accidentally” throw out water on the offender.

4. Shaving cream in the toes of the offender's shoes has always been a good joke. All that remains for you is to fill your boots with shaving cream or foam.

5. A can of butter is a dangerous weapon in your hands! Take any oil and lubricate everything that your offender will touch - a door or window handle, a button in an elevator, a handle on a car door...

6. This joke is for beach lovers. When relaxing on the seashore or river, wait until your offender goes for a swim. Make sure you are out of his line of sight. Dig a hole under your abuser's towel. Cover it with a towel so that the offender does not notice anything. When the offender sits on his towel, he will end up in your hole.

7. Buy some unpleasant-looking clay or plasticine. Add some seeds or grains, as well as carrot pieces. Then shape it to resemble feces. You can put your work of art in any place that is often used by your abuser - a soap dish instead of soap, a car seat, a dinner plate, a table, a chair... The list goes on and on.

9. If you know a little how to use graphic editors, such as Photoshop, then this joke is for you! Find a Photoshop template on the Internet where your future victim will be captured in an unsightly form (for example, a man can be made in a woman’s outfit). Combine the template you choose and a photo of your abuser. The resulting photo can be placed in a visible workplace... Make sure that no one sees you when you paste the photo.

10. Leave a voice message to the number of your offender from the FSB or the Ministry of Internal Affairs. The content of the message is approximately as follows: “Hello! You are worried about FSB junior lieutenant A.P. Pisanenko. We intercepted some of your telephone conversations with an international criminal. Please call back, this is very important for your safety."

Here are just some jokes that you can use as revenge on your offender. Perhaps these ideas will inspire you to create new pranks. Please feel free to add your own jokes in the comments. And perhaps together we will help someone to assert themselves in their team